Have you wanted to get a certain girl into bed but have not had any luck? Maybe you are trying all the wrong moves and making her tighten up her belt instead of loosening it up. Here are some do's and don'ts that you'll want to put into play immediately.
Do make sure you make her feel beautiful. A girl is not going to want to jump into bed with you if you are commenting on her weight in any way shape or form. Girls have a hard enough time with self image and getting naked as it is. Tell her how hot and sexy she is both verbally and with your body. Look her up and down and let her know you think she's fine. This will make her feel like showing you more of her and receiving even more comments.
Don't talk about it all the time. I've known girls that are ready to jump into bed with a guy but he begins talking about sex and more sex and more sex and it eventually turns a girl off of sex altogether. The more you talk about it, the more you look like a drooling sex maniac who thinks of nothing else and unless you find a girl who's not looking for substance in a guy she's not going to want to go any further with you.
Don't mention, brag, or embellish about your past sex life. Girls don't want to picture you getting it on with the twins from high school. It doesn't make you look like a stud or stallion in their eyes. It just makes girls picture you with other girls before, during, and after sex. Even though they know you've probably slept with other girls they won't want to picture it as much as you don't want to picture them with other guys.
Do use physical contact. Touch her hand 'by accident' or guide her in the small of her back with your hand. All these little physical contacts will turn her on and make her want more contact.
Do attempt the first kiss before sex is an issue. Even if it's hours before make sure you do it. What this does is the same as the physical contact in letting her think about the kiss and become more and more turned on.
Don't watch porn together before hand. Do you really think she wants to have to live up to the girl on the porno? Not likely. She'll feel like she has to though afterward and it will either put too much pressure on her or create a really fake and awkward night in bed which can be worse than no sex at all.
Use these do's and don'ts wisely and you'll be sleeping with that girl before you know it.
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Bellaisa is an advocate for happy and stable relationships with yourself and with others and she is the owner of The Relationship Circle. For more information and advice on how to find love or fix a relationship issue visit http://relationship-circle.com and begin a happier and more fulfilling love life.
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